Allah is al-Kareem, so if He withholds from you it is not on account of stinginess. It is on account of His generosity. He withholds to give.

They say you don't get over someone until you find someone or something better. As humans, we don't deal well with emptiness. Any empty space must be filled. Immediately. The pain of emptiness is too strong. It compels the victim to fill that place. A single moment with that empty spot causes excruciating pain. That's why we run from distraction to distraction and from attachment to attachment.

If you want to focus more on Allah in your prayers, focus more on Him outside your prayers.

I get it. Allah put me through it first so I could rise back up and help those around me. He trains you first. Then He sends the people to you and you to the people.

People think that tests only come in the form of hardships. Allah also tests us with ease, it's often in the test of ease that we fail most.

This pain in your heart was created to make you yearn less for this life. And to yearn more for jennah. Allahu akbar

If you want this life to stop breaking your heart, stop giving your heart to this life.