I am a huge believer in social media.
Taking sartorial risks and not following other people is what makes you stand out.
I have a garden, and I collect different heirloom seeds from different neighbors.
I am totally unattached to material items.
Glamour to the outside world is taking some sense of care in your appearance and should give you inner confidence. You can do a full on look or you can do a 'less is more' look but you want to have those components, those little things that are special to you.
Every seam, every lace, every bead has been painstakingly, with love, corrected, perfected and mastered.