I am going to try speaking some reckless words, and I want you to try to listen recklessly.
ZhuangziIf you persist in trying to attain what is never attained (It is Tao's gift), if you persist in making effort to obtain what effort cannot get, if you persist in reasoning about what cannot be understood, you will be destroyed by the very thing you seek. To know when to stop, to know when you can get no further by your own action, this is the right beginning!
ZhuangziEither in conflict with others or in harmony with them, we go through life like a runaway horse, unable to stop.
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