Your mate doesn't live by bread alone; he or she needs to be 'buttered up' from time to time.
Zig ZiglarYou cannot solve a problem until you acknowledge that you have one and accept responsibility for solving it.
Zig ZiglarSurrogate fathers and other male figures stepped in to give guidance after my dad died. Businessmen taught me to honor my commitments; others gave me opportunities beyond my wildest imaginations. Authors and speakers set good, solid examples of high standards and lofty goals for me; mature, committed Christians nurtured and instructed me.
Zig Ziglar