That's exactly the way parents develop positive, successful kids. Don't look for the flaws, warts, and blemishes. Look for the gold, not for the dirt; the good, not the bad. Look for the positive aspects of life. Like everything else, the more good qualities we look for in our children, the more good qualities we are going to find.
Zig ZiglarThere is a certain amount of dissatisfaction that goes with knowing your time, talent and abilities are not being properly used.
Zig ZiglarWhat you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.
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