When you give directives to a child, especially a teenager, you must consider the nature of your child.
Zig ZiglarTake one cup of love, two cups of loyalty, three cups of forgiveness, four quarts of faith and one barrel of laughter. Take love and loyalty and mix them thoroughly with faith; blend with tenderness, kindness and understanding. Add friendship and hope. Sprinkle abundantly with laughter. Bake it with sunshine. Wrap it regularly with lots of hugs. Serve generous helpings daily.
Zig ZiglarIf you go out looking for friends, they'll be scarce. If you go out looking to be one, you'll have all the friends you need.
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