If you treat your children at home in the same way you treat your animals in the lab, your wife will scratch your eyes out. My wife ferociously warned me against experimenting on her babies.

I may say that B-love, in a profound but testable sense, creates the partner. It gives him a self-image, it gives him self- acceptance, a feeling of love-worthiness, all of which permit him to grow. It is a real question whether the full development of the human being is possible without it.

What a man can be, he must be. This need we call self-actualizat ion.

We crave and fear becoming truly ourselves

Only the flexibly creative person can really manage the future, Only the one who can face novelty with confidence and without fear.

If the essential core of the person is denied or suppressed, he gets sick sometimes in obvious ways, sometimes in subtle ways, sometimes immediately, sometimes later.

Every person is, in part, 'his own project' and makes himself.