I may say that B-love, in a profound but testable sense, creates the partner. It gives him a self-image, it gives him self- acceptance, a feeling of love-worthiness, all of which permit him to grow. It is a real question whether the full development of the human being is possible without it.
Abraham MaslowWe are not in a position in which we have nothing to work with. We already have capacities, talents, direction, missions, callings.
Abraham Maslow