Being in a band is about making the band the priority.

You want to embrace, but I can't figure out how to hold on to it.

If you want to really love someone, you've got to let go and loosen up and just care.

I have a lot of problems understanding connections between people and how to negotiate that. It makes everything hard offstage.

I think the biggest, saddest thing that happens in our lives is that we just don't embrace the things that could make it better because they don't seem to make it better at any given moment or we can't decide how to get across the aisle to that person.

People ask me if I have stage fright. I say, "God, no, I'm completely comfortable there. I have rest-of-the-day fright."

Your misery is everyone else's entertainment.