Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.

There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden. There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage

Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.

The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.

People change, but there really are limits. One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life. We are children for a very long time.

Transgression is a quest for solitude

Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.