The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access

Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.

The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access

The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .. Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’

Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.

There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden. There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage

You write to find out what you believe.