We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
Alain de BottonTo look at the paper is to raise a seashell to one's ear and to be overwhelmed by the roar of humanity.
Alain de BottonThe study of maps and the perusal of travel books aroused in me a secret fascination that was at times almost irresistible.
Alain de BottonIt is not necessarily at home that we best encounter our true selves. The furniture insists that we cannot change because it does not; the domestic setting keeps us tethered to the person we are in ordinary life, who may not be who we essentially are.
Alain de Botton