The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, youโll also, by implication โฆ believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
Alain de BottonThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
Alain de BottonWe each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
Alain de Bottonas the determinants of high status keep shifting, so, too, naturally, will the triggers of status anxiety be altered.
Alain de Botton