For paranoia about 'what other people think' : remember that only some hate, a very few love - and almost all just don't care.
Alain de BottonThose who divorce aren't necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
Alain de BottonIntimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone - and finding that that's ok with them.
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