The most unbearable thing about many successful people is not - as we flatteringly think - how lazy they are, but how hard they work.
Alain de BottonUnnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
Alain de BottonIt is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
Alain de BottonPolitics is so difficult, it's generally only people who aren't quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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