We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
Alain de BottonIt is this idea 'decency' should be attached to wealth -and 'indecency'' to poverty - that forms the core of one strand of skeptical complaint against the modern status-ideal. Why should failure to make money be taken as a sign of an unconditionally flawed human being rather than of a fiasco in one particular area if the far larger, more multifaceted, project of leading a good life? Why should both wealth and poverty be read as the predominant guides to an individual's morals ?
Alain de BottonMuch of the really serious trouble in the world gets going with a sense of humiliation.
Alain de BottonWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
Alain de Botton