As victims of hurt, we frequently don't bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
Alain de BottonWhat I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we're truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.
Alain de BottonYou normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
Alain de BottonInstead of bringing back 1600 plants, we might return from our journeys with a collection of small unfรชted but life-enhancing thoughts.
Alain de Botton