It is not selfish or narcissistic to love yourself. It is your first and foremost responsibility.
Ask for peace first, and you will clearly see your next step.
I give myself the kindness and forgiveness I would show others.
Mind is the cause; everything else is effect.
You do not need to import greatness from another; you just need to act on your own.
When you protect yourself from pain, be sure you do not protect yourself from love.