When I'm in pain and grief and despair, my throat is clenched and my heart hurts.

That I would be loved even when I numb myself. That I would be good even when I am overwhelmed. That I would be loved even when I was fuming. That I would be good even if I was clingy.

When I'm really, really angry, if I'm privileged enough to be next to someone who can hold my anger, I'll definitely take them up on holding the bucket.

I'm quite obsessed with the idea of nailing the girl friendship. It's such an art, so delicate.

The people that were invested in me staying the same way after a decade will most likely by default have to be disappointed.

I was always such a people-watcher. I would sit on street corners alone and watch people and make up stories about them in my head. Then, all of a sudden, I was the one being watched.

I breastfeed and I'll be breastfeeding until my son is finished and he weans.