By honestly acknowledging your past errors, but never damning yourself for them, you can learn to use your past for your own future benefit.
Albert EllisWhen I was 16 I started keeping a diary in which I recorded my disagreements with the famous philosophers. I didn't insist that they were wrong, that I was right and I had to prevail. I just agreed and disagreed with them. I thought there was a high degree of probability that I was right and some other thinkers were wrong. But I wasn't positive about it.
Albert EllisYou never truly need what you want. That is the main and thoroughgoing key to serenity.
Albert EllisThere are three musts that hold us back: I must do well. You must treat me well. And the world must be easy.
Albert Ellis