For me writing is so perplexing, because if we were playing ping pong and we weren't writing - twenty years later you'd be just so much better at ping pong and this confidence with ping pong.

I'm always wondering what is the job that gives the writer the most amount of time to write. I still don't know what the answer is as someone who has taught and is now working at a grocery store.

Lots of people hate gay people. You can tell who they are because they start sentences with, “It's not like I hate gay people.”

Sometimes I forget when I read a book that it didn't exist in English first.

I'm always struck with writing - I constantly feel like I don't know what I'm doing and I'm starting over.

I feel very discouraged with the state of gay and lesbian publishing because I don't feel like we're really welcome in the mainstream and then you get ghettoized and put on some lesbian book club reading list where you don't want to be either.

It's not like I hate gay people.