In a narcissistic cathexis, you invest more energy into your ideas about another person than in the actual, objective, external person. So the man who falls in love with beauty is quite different from the man who loves a girl and feels she is beautiful and can see what is beautiful about her.
Alison BechdelIt's a hard thing to age a character because you can't really suddenly give someone gray hair.
Alison BechdelWhen I was growing up in the 1960s, there was starting to be more books geared towards young adults.
Alison Bechdel