I don't really want to control anyone, to be honest.
Women can be strong, be smart, be sexy, be mothers, be wives, and be powerful. We don't need to compromise.
In order for me to parent well I have to empathize and stay open with my son.
I do say no to things that I think are completely gratuitous.
I've gotten out of bed a lot of days for a lot less than $10,000.
If all else fails, a few deep breaths.