If you are at Rome live in the Roman style; if you are elsewhere live as they live elsewhere.
AmbroseAccordingly, death is a harbor of peace for the just, but is believed a shipwreck for the wicked.
AmbroseDo not desert a friend in time of need, nor forsake him nor fail him, for friendship is the support of life. Let us then bear our burdens as the Apostle has taught (cf. Gal. 6:2): for he spoke to those whom the charity of the same one body had embraced together. If friends in prosperity help friends, why do they not also in times of adversity offer their support? Let us aid by giving counsel, let us offer our best endeavors, let us sympathize with them with all our heart.
Ambrose