Both of my girls have very high self-esteem because they were both able to master certain things; I should think that's good for their confidence.
Amy ChuaDon't assume your child is weak. If you, the parent, assume that they can't take anymore, what kind of signal are you sending them?
Amy ChuaGenghis Khan decreed religious tolerance for all of his conquered peoples. So I think he definitely would approve of our constitutional protections of freedom of religion. I think he would also approve of the way the U.S. has been able to attract talented people from all over the world.
Amy ChuaA lot of parents today are terrified that something they say to their children might make them 'feel bad.' But, hey, if they've done something wrong, they should feel bad. Kids with a sense of responsibility, not entitlement, who know when to experience gratitude and humility, will be better at navigating the social shoals of college.
Amy Chua