She [my mother] said that if I listened to her, later I would know what she knew: where true words came from, always from up high, above everything else. And if I didn't listen to her, she said my ear would bend too easily to other people, all saying words that had no lasting meaning, because they came from the bottom of their hearts, where their own desires lived, a place where I could not belong.
Amy Tanhow can the world in all its chaos come up with so many coincidences, so many similarities and exact opposites?
Amy TanI think we often write because we feel a loneliness, and people read for the same reason, and then they come away feeling a little less lonely.
Amy TanI was six when my mother taught me the art of invisible strength..."strongest wind cannot be seen."
Amy TanNow they seemed to be in a contest over who could irritate her more, and she sometimes had to remind herself that teenagers had souls
Amy TanI thought this man had long ago drained everything from my heart. But now something strong and bitter flowed and made me feel another emptiness in a place I didn't know was there. I cursed this man aloud so he could hear. You had dog eyes. You jumped and followed whoever called you. Now you chase your own tail.
Amy TanAnd then it occurs to me. They are frightened. In me, they see their own daughters, just as ignorant, just as unmindful of all the truths and hopes they have brought to America. They see daughters who grow impatient when their mothers talk in Chinese, who think they are stupid when they explain things in fractured English. They see that joy and luck do not mean the same to their daughters, that to these closed American-born minds "joy luck" is not a word, it does not exist. They see daughters who will bear grandchildren born without any connecting hope passed from generation to generation.
Amy Tan