It means we're looking one way, while following another. We're for one side and also the other. We mean what we say, but our intentions are different.
Amy TanDon't think too much. That makes you believe you have more choices than you do. Then you mind becomes confused.
Amy TanI feel I've always been writing about self-identity. How do we become who we are? So I'm just writing from experience what's concerned me.
Amy Tan