I like the aesthetics of the Church.
Oftentimes we love the thing we hate and vice versa.
I like going to Church for aesthetic reasons, rather than spiritual ones.
As a former Catholic, and as someone who even today is not opposed to being called a Christian, I felt I had every right to use the symbols of the Church and resented being told not to.
I don't think that because I am Hispanic I should therefore do Hispanic work.
I have never been able to see myself as fitting into one category, and I have never been able to limit my contact with people to one group of people.