It is only when parental feelings are ineffective or too ambivalent or when the mother's emotions are temporarily engaged elsewhere that children feel lost.

Children usually do not blame themselves for getting lost.

I am no longer afraid to say anything.

My different personalities leave me in peace now.

I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.

Create around one at least a small circle where matters are arranged as one wants them to be.

The selection of leadership must follow practical considerations. Maybe I look at things too pessimistically?