I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.
Children usually do not blame themselves for getting lost.
It is only when parental feelings are ineffective or too ambivalent or when the mother's emotions are temporarily engaged elsewhere that children feel lost.
Sex is something you do. Sexuality is something you are.
I am no longer afraid to say anything.
My different personalities leave me in peace now.