Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.

The truth is that progress is usually small and sneaky.

So Rita and I decided that the most subversive, revolutionary thing I could do was to show up for my life and not be ashamed.

Jealousy has always been my cross, the weakness and woundedness in me that has most often caused me to feel ugly and unlovable, like the Bad Seed.

Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor.

All parents are an embarrassment to their kids. Often grandparents are the relief. Kids don't have to resist you.

A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal.