Live your life as you see fit. That's not selfish. Selfish is to demand that others live their lives as you see fit.

Enlightenment is: absolute cooperation with the inevitable.

The world is right because I feel good. p. 83, Awareness, copyright 1990

When you are guilty, it is not your sins you hate but yourself.

I leave you free to be yourself: to think your thoughts, indulge your tastes, follow your inclinations, behave in ways that you decide are to your liking.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if we had a world where everybody said, 'We don't know?' The fact is that you're surrounded -God and you don't see God, because you KNOW ABOUT God. The final barrier to the vision of God is your God concept. You miss God because you think you know. The highest knowledge of God is to know God as unknowable. All revelations, however divine, are never any more than a finger pointing at the moon. As we say in the East, 'When the sage points to the moon, all the idiot sees is the finger'.

The only way to change is by changing your understanding.