All the world loves a lover, and a lover loves all the world.

I want to show that the dividing lines between sanity and mental illness have been drawn in the wrong place.

The sane are madder than we think, the mad saner.

Had [Winston Churchill] been a stable and equable man, he could never have inspired the nation. In 1940, when all the odds were against Britain, a leader of sober judgment might well have concluded that we were finished.

It's not psychopathology that counts. It's what you do with it.

I get intrigued by a puzzle, and writing a book is the best way to solve it.

Avoidance behavior is a response designed to protect the infant from behavioral disorganization. If we transfer this concept to adult life, we can see that an avoidant infant might very well develop into a person whose principal need was to find some kind of meaning and order in life which was not entirely, or even chiefly, dependent upon interpersonal relationships