You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheAlways have the situation under control, even if losing. Never betray an inward sense of defeat.
Arthur AsheIn America you're conditioned to regard everything as a contest. You have to make the Ten Best Dressed List, win this, win that. It drives me nuts sometimes. Who cares, for Christ's sake?
Arthur Ashe