The fear that we cannot grow beyond whatever distortions we may find within ourselves keeps us docile and loyal and obedient, externally defined, and leads us to accept many facets of our own oppression as women.
Audre Lorde...my experience with people who tried to label me was that they usually did it to either dismiss me or use me.
Audre LordeBlack women sharing close ties with each other, politically or emotionally, are not the enemies of Black men.
Audre Lorde