But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.
Audre Lorde[Speaking] is never without fear; of visibility, of the harsh light of scrutiny and perhaps judgment, of pain, of death. But we have lived through all of those already, in silence, except death. And I remind myself all the time now, that if I were to have been born mute, and had maintained an oath of silence my whole life for safety, I would still have suffered, and I would still die.
Audre LordeGuilt and defensiveness are bricks in a wall against which we all flounder; they serve none of our futures.
Audre Lorde