Guilt is not a response to anger; it is a response to one's own actions or lack of action.
Audre LordeYou loved people and you came to depend on their being there. but people died or changed or went away and it hurt too much. The only way to avoid that poin was not to love anyone, and not to let anyone get too close or too important. The secret of not being hurt like this again, I decided, was never depending on anyone, never needing, never loving.It is the last dream of children, to be forever untouched.
Audre LordeAttend me, hold me in your muscular flowering arms, protect me from throwing any part of myself away.
Audre Lorde