Despite the fact that in America we incarcerate more juveniles for life terms than in any other country in the world, the truth is that the vast majority of youth offenders will one day be released. The question is simple and stark. Do we want to help them change or do we want to help them become even more violent and dangerous?
Ayelet WaldmanEveryone knows now how early a fetus becomes a baby. Women who have been pregnant have seen their babies on ultrasounds. They know that there is a terrible truth to those horrific pictures the anti-choice fanatics hold up in front of abortion clinics.
Ayelet WaldmanMy father is sure that Israel keeps the Holocaust from happening again. I worry that it might hasten its recurrence.
Ayelet WaldmanI smoked pot when I was a teenager because other kids were doing it, but I didn't enjoy it that much.
Ayelet WaldmanIn a perfect world I think we would microdose with LSD instead of giving teenagers Adderall. But I'd like to see it studied first.
Ayelet WaldmanIf you focus all of your emotional passion on your children and you neglect the relationship that brought that family into existence... eventually, things can go really, really wrong.
Ayelet WaldmanI certainly don't think it's inevitable that we don't love children who don't carry our own DNA. If that were true we wouldn't have millions of successful adoptions to consider. I do think that it's harder to love a child when you come into that child's life after the unrequited passion of infancy and early childhood has passed.
Ayelet Waldman