You can't ask for what you want unless you know what it is. A lot of people don't know what they want or they want much less than they deserve. First you have figure out what you want. Second, you have to decide that you deserve it. Third, you have to believe you can get it. And, fourth, you have to have the guts to ask for it
Barbara De AngelisLove and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.
Barbara De AngelisTo succeed, you have to do something and be very bad at it for a while. You have to look bad before you can look really good.
Barbara De AngelisWhen I look for happiness, I lose it. When I stop looking, and surrender to where I am, I find it.
Barbara De AngelisWhen you're used to getting just a piece of bread for a meal, you don't realize that you can ask for a plate of pasta. You have never seen a plate of pasta. You don't even know it exists. So, to ask for it is totally out of your reality. Hopefully, at some point, either someone shows you a plate of pasta, you read about it, or you hear about it enough so that it becomes real, and it's not just a fantasy anymore, and then you start thinking "Hey, I want that pasta."
Barbara De Angelis