The benefits of positive emotions don't stop after a few minutes of good feelings subside. In fact, the biggest benefit that positive emotions provide is an enhanced ability to build skills and develop resources for use later in life.
Barbara FredricksonThe boundaries between you and not-you โ what lies beyond your skin โ relax and become more permeable. While infused with love you see fewer distinctions between you and others. Indeed, your ability to see others โ really see them, wholeheartedly โ springs open.
Barbara FredricksonFlourishing goes beyond happiness, or satisfaction with life. True, people who flourish are happy. But that's not the half of it. Beyond feeling good, they're also doing good-adding value to the world.
Barbara FredricksonLove requires you to be physically and emotionally present. It also requires that you slow down.
Barbara FredricksonLove is a momentary upwelling of three tightly interwoven events: First, a sharing of one or more positive emotions between you and another; second, a synchrony between your and the other personโs biochemistry and behaviors; and third, a reflected motive to invest in each otherโs well-being that brings mutual care
Barbara Fredrickson