... Urban friends ask me how I can stand living here, 'so far from everything?' When I hear this question over the phone, I'm usually looking out the window at a forest, a running creek, and a vegetable garden, thinking: Define everything.

What I want is so simple I almost can't say it: elementary kindness.

...nothing momentous comes in this world unless it comes on the shoulders of kindness.

It occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how entirely inside themselves they are.

I know how people are, with their habits of mind. Most will sail through from cradle to grave with a conscience clean as snow...I know people. Most have no earthly notion of the price of a snow-white conscience.

It's one thing to carry your life wherever you go. Another thing to always go looking for it somewhere else.

the novel is inherently a political instrument, regardless of its subject. It invites you - more than invites you, induces you - to live inside another person's skin. It creates empathy. And that's the antidote to bigotry. The novel doesn't just tell you about another life, which is what a newspaper would do. It makes you live another life, inhabit another perspective. And that's very important.