I want there to be a place in the world where people can engage in one another’s differences in a way that is redemptive, full of hope and possibility. Not this “In order to love you, I must make you something else”. That’s what domination is all about, that in order to be close to you, I must possess you, remake and recast you.

You must have courage to love, you have to have a profound will to do what is right to love, and it does not come easy.

I do get a little pissed at people who write me and want me to do things, and spell my name wrong.

Few people who are hit once by someone they love respond in the way they might to a singular physical assault by a stranger.

I think we have to talk about educating the people for critical consciousness about what anarchy is.

Shaming is one of the deepest tools of imperialist, white supremacist, capitalist patriarchy because shame produces trauma and trauma often produces paralysis.

Isolation and loneliness are central causes of depression and despair.