Widespread cultural acceptance of lying is a primary reason many of us will never know love

I do get a little pissed at people who write me and want me to do things, and spell my name wrong.

I feel like there is always something trying to pull us back into sleep, that there is this sort of seductive quality in all the hedonistic pleasures that pull on us.

Language is also a place of struggle.

Yearning is the word that best describes a common psychological state shared by many of us, cutting across boundaries of race, class, gender, and sexual practice.

Most gay men are as sexist in their thinking as are heterosexuals. Their patriarchal thinking leads them to construct paradigms of desirable sexual behaviour that is similar to that of patriarchal straight men.

You are not going to destroy this imperialist white supremacist capitalist patriarchy by creating your own version of it.