Most gay men are as sexist in their thinking as are heterosexuals. Their patriarchal thinking leads them to construct paradigms of desirable sexual behaviour that is similar to that of patriarchal straight men.

For me, forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?

Fluidity means that our black identities are constantly changing as we respond to circumstances in our families and communities of origin, and as we interact with a wider world.

Whenever domination is present, love is lacking.

Love is first and foremost exemplified by action - by practice - not solely by feeling.

I think our culture doesn't recognize passion, because real passion has the power to disrupt boundaries.

If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.