Women have endeavored to guide men to love because patriarchal thinking has sanctioned this work even as it has undermined it by teaching men to refuse guidance...A useful gift all love's practitioners can give is the offering of forgiveness. It not only allows us to move away from blame, from seeing others as the cause of our sustained lovelessness, but it enables us to experience agency, to know we can be responsible for giving and finding love.

Part of the heart of anarchy is, dare to go against the grain of the conventional ways of thinking about our realities. Anarchists have always gone against the grain, and that's been a place of hope.

Patriarchy has no gender.

I think our culture doesn't recognize passion, because real passion has the power to disrupt boundaries.

Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.

The greatest movement for social justice our country has ever known is the civil rights movement and it was totally rooted in a love ethic.

There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.