If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.

Shaming is one of the deepest tools of imperialist, white supremacist, capitalist patriarchy because shame produces trauma and trauma often produces paralysis.

Living simply makes loving simple.

Imagine how much easier it would be for us to learn how to love if we began with a shared definition.

The moment we choose to love we begin to move against domination, against oppression. The moment we choose to love we begin to move towards freedom, to act in ways that liberate ourselves and others.

In a culture of domination, preoccupation with victimage is inevitable.

The fierce willingness to repudiate domination in a holistic manner is the starting point for progressive cultural revolution.