Like my parents, I have never been a regular church member or churchgoer. It doesn't seem plausible to me that there is the kind of God who watches over human affairs, listens to prayers, and tries to guide people to follow His precepts - there is just too much misery and cruelty for that.
Benjamin SpockDon't worry about trying to do a perfect job. There is no perfect job. There is no one way of raising your children.
Benjamin SpockHaving a good time together is the essence of lovingness and the best means of increasing it.
Benjamin SpockRespect children because they're human beings and they deserve respect, and they'll grow up to be better people.
Benjamin Spock