An English philosopher said that whatever is cosmic is also comic. Do the best you can and don't take it so seriously.

In every area, working with what you habitually reject is one of the best ways to facilitate growth and transformation.

Let me give you a wonderful Zen practice. Wake up in the morning...look in the mirror, and laugh at yourself.

It's very rare to be in a state where there's nothing in, where you have no attachment to any idea or concept about yourself. In that state you've immediately raised the mind of compassion, because if nothing is in, everything is in, and you are now free to experience yourself as the world.

When we don't ask, we don't let others give. When we fear rejection, we don't let generosity arise.

When we bear witness, when we become the situation - homelessness, poverty, illness, violence, death - the right action arises by itself. We don't have to worry about what to do. We don't have to figure out solutions ahead of time. Peacemaking is the functioning of bearing witness. Once we listen with our entire body and mind, loving action arises.

The basic problem, actually, is how to get rid of the idea that we're going to get rid of our problems. Only then can we relate directly with the real issues of our life.