We must never minimize the suffering of another. Scripture's mandate to us is, "Weep with them that weep." (Romans 12:15, KJV)
Be sure that your motive in praying is to glorify God.
I never saw a U-Haul behind a hearse.
The same sun that melts the butter hardens the clay.
Only as we bow in contrition, confession, and repentance at the foot of the cross, can we find forgiveness. There is the grace of God.
... our little things are all big to God's love; our big things are all small to His power.