This one life has no form and is empty by nature. If you become attached by any form, you should reject it. If you see an ego, a soul, a birth, or a death, reject them all.

Once you see your nature, sex is basically immaterial.

And as long as you're subject to birth and death, you'll never attain enlightenment.

Not creating delusions is enlightenment.

To find Buddha, you have to see your nature. Whoever sees his nature is a Buddha. If you don't see your nature, invoking buddhas, reciting sutras, making offerings, and keeping precepts are all useless. Invoking buddhas results in good karma, reciting sutras results in a good memory, keeping precepts results in good rebirth, and making offerings results in future blessings-but no Buddha.

Our true buddha-nature has no shape. And the dust of affliction has no form.

If you use your mind to look for a Buddha, you won't see the Buddha.