Remember, Life is a journey, not a destination.
There is "what is" only when there is no comparing and to live with "what is" is to be peaceful.
Be like water, my friend.
Voidness is that which stands right in the middle between this and that.
To spend time is to pass it in a specified manner. To waste time is to expend it thoughtlessly or carelessly. We all have time to either spend or waste and it is our decision what to do with it. But once passed, it is gone forever.
In life, what more can you ask for than to be real?